2010年从事姑息治疗的护士 Bronnie Ware ，分享了她的人生遗憾列表：
在忙碌的生活方式中，对这些问题没有对应的计划，它们就慢慢溜走了，直到某天不再忙碌，才在记忆中浮现出来。
忘记梦想，忽视家人，压抑情感，忽视朋友，忘记快乐。 只是因为你的日常琐事优先级抑制了它们。
想要避免犯错误，可以逆向破解。把他们反着写出来，贴在桌子上，提醒自己还有这些事值得做。
书的中文版，我看了下试读就放弃了🤣
这里还有其他人对这些观点的看法 throwaway_981、The Top Of My Todo List，也欢迎你分享自己的看法。
凯文·凯利（Kevin Kelly，网名 KK）是著名的科技评论家，曾经担任《连线》（Wired）杂志的第一任主编，他的著作《失控》在国内外都非常有名。
……
去年4月28日，是他68岁的生日。老爷子在个人网站上，发表了一篇《给年轻人的68条建议》，谈自己的人生体会。文章很受欢迎，浏览量非常大，译成了十几种外语。
今年4月28日，69岁生日时，他又续写了一篇《给年轻人的99 条建议》。
……
这些建议，读起来很有意思。我觉得，他年纪大了以后，对传统的观点越来越不屑一顾了，更强调叛逆和逆向思维。
科技爱好者周刊（第 157 期）：KK 给年轻人的建议，阮一峰
我在读了这篇99个建议之后，最大的感受是——怎么这么长啊，谁有耐心读完呢？
然后我就用人工，智能给他：
真棒！你掌握了查看原文的技巧^-^
你也可以在留言里写下你对这些建议的体会，也许对其他人有帮助。
我觉得比较有意思的有：
如果发现有错误和不合适的翻译，请留言指出，我可以把它换成你的版本。
That thing that made you weird as a kid could make you great as an adult — if you don’t lose it.
注释：
这句话是说，一个人能够成功，不是因为你跟别人一样，而是因为你从小就跟别人不一样，并且保持了下来。这就是鼓励大家走不一样的路，别人告诉你做人要怎样怎样，听听就好。
——阮一峰
If something fails where you thought it would fail, that is not a failure.
注释：
真正的勇士敢于直面惨淡的人生，敢于正视淋漓的鲜血。
——破碎幻灭
这句话的意思是如果你预知到了是失败，并且确实失败了，那么你就是成功的，因为你做好了面对失败的准备。
——pppwaw
The greatest rewards come from working on something that nobody has a name for. If you possibly can, work where there are no words for what you do.
注释：
竞争对手变多，就开始内卷了。
Don’t create things to make money; make money so you can create things. The reward for good work is more work.
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A multitude of bad ideas is necessary for one good idea.
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Being wise means having more questions than answers.
注释：
言下之意，所谓有智慧的人，不是因为他知道答案，而恰恰因为他不知道，比别人有更多的疑问。那么，按照这种说法，那些言之凿凿、说起话来不容置疑、告诉你答案的人，在 KK 看来并不是那么可信。
有意思的地方是，KK 本人是一个评论家，平日的工作就是写文章，分析科技趋势。这是不是他在对大家说，我的那些文章也不必当真，其实我内心的疑问比你们更多。
——阮一峰
Most overnight successes — in fact any significant successes — take at least 5 years. Budget your life accordingly.
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You are only as young as the last time you changed your mind.
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To be wealthy, accumulate all those things that money can’t buy.
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Be the change you wish to see.
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When brainstorming, improvising, jamming with others, you’ll go much further and deeper if you build upon each contribution with a playful “yes — and” example instead of a deflating “no — but” reply.
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Work to become, not to acquire.
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On the way to a grand goal, celebrate the smallest victories as if each one were the final goal. No matter where it ends you are victorious.
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Worth repeating: measure twice, cut once.
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Your passion in life should fit you exactly; but your purpose in life should exceed you. Work for something much larger than yourself.
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Money is overrated. Truly new things rarely need an abundance of money. If that was so, billionaires would have a monopoly on inventing new things, and they don’t. Instead almost all breakthroughs are made by those who lack money, because they are forced to rely on their passion, persistence and ingenuity to figure out new ways. Being poor is an advantage in innovation.
注释：
创业公司最大的苦恼就是没有资源，但是 KK 认为这恰恰是一种优势。一个公司能够创新，不是因为有钱，更大的原因是没钱，不得不发明新方法。
——阮一峰
Ignore what others may be thinking of you, because they aren’t.
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Bad things can happen fast, but almost all good things happen slowly.
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Don’t worry how or where you begin. As long as you keep moving, your success will be far from where you start.
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If your goal does not have a schedule, it is a dream.
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The greatest breakthroughs are missed because they look like hard work.
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Everything is hard before it is easy. The day before something is a breakthrough, it’s a stupid idea.
注释：
万事开头难，斗霜傲雪二十年。山重水复疑无路，柳暗花明又一村。
Many backward steps are made by standing still.
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This is the best time ever to make something. None of the greatest, coolest creations 20 years from now have been invented yet. You are not late.
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To succeed, get other people to pay you; to become wealthy, help other people to succeed.
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When making something, always get a few extras — extra material, extra parts, extra space, extra finishes. The extras serve as backups for mistakes, reduce stress, and fill your inventory for the future. They are the cheapest insurance.
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History teaches us that in 100 years from now some of the assumptions you believed will turn out to be wrong. A good question to ask yourself today is “What might I be wrong about?”
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Recipe for success: under-promise and over-deliver.
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Be governed not by the tyranny of the urgent but by the elevation of the important.
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In all things — except love — start with the exit strategy. Prepare for the ending. Almost anything is easier to get into than out of.
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Your work will be endless, but your time is finite. You cannot limit the work so you must limit your time. Hours are the only thing you can manage.
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Don’t let your email inbox become your to-do list.
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The best way to untangle a knotty tangle is not to “untie” the knots, but to keep pulling the loops apart wider and wider. Just make the mess as big, loose and open as possible. As you open up the knots they will unravel themselves. Works on cords, strings, hoses, yarns, or electronic cables.
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To combat an adversary, become their friend.
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Take one simple thing — almost anything — but take it extremely seriously, as if it was the only thing in the world, or maybe the entire world is in it — and by taking it seriously you’ll light up the sky.
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Learn how to tie a bowline knot. Practice in the dark. With one hand. For the rest of your life you’ll use this knot more times than you would ever believe.
注释：
不太清楚打结有什么用，查了下只知道这种结比较牢固，期待你的分享。
Don’t loan money to a friend unless you are ready to make it a gift.
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When hitchhiking, look like the person you want to pick you up.
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If you can’t tell what you desperately need, it’s probably sleep.
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When you confront a stuck bolt or screw: righty tighty, lefty loosey.
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Even in the tropics it gets colder at night than you think. Pack warmly.
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Dance with your hips.
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When you are stuck, sleep on it. Let your subconscious work for you.
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Be nice to your children because they are going to choose your nursing home.
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A balcony or porch needs to be at least 6 feet (2m) deep or it won’t be used.
注释：
6英尺宽，可让放置四人餐桌。 从6英尺增加到8英尺会使它更舒适。
Writing down one thing you are grateful for each day is the cheapest possible therapy ever.
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Avoid hitting the snooze button. That’s just training you to oversleep.
注释：
训练，让我想到了巴普洛夫和他的狗勾。
It is much easier to change how you think by changing your behavior, than it is to change your behavior by changing how you think. Act out the change you seek.
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You can eat any dessert you want if you take only 3 bites.
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All the greatest gains in life — in wealth, relationships, or knowledge —come from the magic of compounding interest — amplifying small steady gains. All you need for abundance is to keep adding 1% more than you subtract on a regular basis.
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Be frugal in all things, except in your passions splurge.
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When playing Monopoly, spend all you have to buy, barter, or trade for the Orange properties. Don’t bother with Utilities.
注释：
大富翁选择橙色地产，来自于大富翁桌游，玩家购买地皮对手停留此地时需要支付玩家租金，不同颜色地块价值和租金有区别，地皮越贵租金越高。橙色地块并不是最昂贵的（蓝色是最昂贵的），但是橙色是棋子每回合停留概率最大的，KK的意思大概是不要着重于单次最赚钱的产业，而是收入中等但可以细水长流的产业。
——XMARK
It’s not an apology if it comes with an excuse. It is not a compliment if it comes with a request.
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Leave a gate behind you the way you first found it.
注释：
在世界各地的农村地区，礼貌的一个重要原则就是让门保持原样(或者让所有的门都保持原样)。如果一扇门被发现是开着的，那么它应该是开着的，如果是关着的，那么它应该是关着的。如果必须穿过一个关闭的大门，事后应该再关闭。它适用于前往或穿越农场、牧场和车站的游客。
Don’t aim to have others like you; aim to have them respect you.
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The foundation of maturity: Just because it’s not your fault doesn’t mean it’s not your responsibility.
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Compliment people behind their back. It’ll come back to you.
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Sustained outrage makes you stupid.
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Be strict with yourself and forgiving of others. The reverse is hell for everyone.
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Your best response to an insult is “You’re probably right.” Often they are.
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If you can avoid seeking approval of others, your power is limitless.
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When a child asks an endless string of “why?” questions, the smartest reply is, “I don’t know, what do you think?”
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Calm is contagious.
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Even a foolish person can still be right about most things. Most conventional wisdom is true.
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Contemplating the weaknesses of others is easy; contemplating the weaknesses in yourself is hard, but it pays a much higher reward.
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If you borrow something, try to return it in better shape than you received it. Clean it, sharpen it, fill it up.
注释：
借充电宝后充满电再给人送过去会好很多，这也是我从朋友身上学到的。
——第一个喝牛奶的人对奶牛做了什么,NGA
To quiet a crowd or a drunk, just whisper.
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Don’t treat people as bad as they are. Treat them as good as you are.
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Each time you reach out to people, bring them a blessing; then they’ll be happy to see you when you bring them a problem.
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Always say less than necessary.
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If you meet a jerk, overlook them. If you meet jerks everywhere everyday, look deeper into yourself.
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You can reduce the annoyance of someone’s stupid belief by increasing your understanding of why they believe it.
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Every person you meet knows an amazing lot about something you know virtually nothing about. Your job is to discover what it is, and it won’t be obvious.
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Always give credit, take blame.
注释：
Give me credit 称赞表扬我的功劳 ; 称赞我
The worst evils in history have always been committed by those who truly believed they were combating evil. Beware of combating evil.
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People can’t remember more than 3 points from a speech.
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If someone is trying to convince you it’s not a pyramid scheme, it’s a pyramid scheme.
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Assume anyone asking for your account information for any reason is guilty of scamming you, unless proven innocent. The way to prove innocence is to call them back, or login to your account using numbers or a website that you provide, not them. Don’t release any identifying information while they are contacting you via phone, message or email. You must control the channel.
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Children totally accept — and crave — family rules. “In our family we have a rule for X” is the only excuse a parent needs for setting a family policy. In fact, “I have a rule for X” is the only excuse you need for your own personal policies.
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Always cut away from yourself.
注释：
Always cut away from – never towards – yourself.
All guns are loaded.
注释：
用枪安全四大守则
1. 永远假设枪内已有子弹上膛。
2. 永远不要将枪口指向任何你不想攻击的目标。
3. 除非确定要射击，否则手指不可接触扳机。
4. 射击时先确定目标所在及其后方有无安全顾虑。
You don’t marry a person, you marry a family.
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Something does not need to be perfect to be wonderful. Especially weddings.
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When someone tells you something is wrong, they’re usually right. When someone tells you how to fix it, they’re usually wrong.
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If you think you saw a mouse, you did. And, if there is one, there are more.
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Show me your calendar and I will tell you your priorities. Tell me who your friends are, and I’ll tell you where you’re going.
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You are given the gift of life in order to discover what your gift *in* life is. You will complete your mission when you figure out what your mission is. This is not a paradox. This is the way.
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We are not bodies that temporarily have souls. We are souls that temporarily have bodies.
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I have never met a person I admired who did not read more books than I did.
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The greatest teacher is called “doing”.
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Finite games are played to win or lose. Infinite games are played to keep the game going. Seek out infinite games because they yield infinite rewards.
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A problem that can be solved with money is not really a problem.
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No rain, no rainbow.
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Be a good ancestor. Do something a future generation will thank you for. A simple thing is to plant a tree.
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Advice like these are not laws. They are like hats. If one doesn’t fit, try another.
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Jesus, Superman, and Mother Teresa never made art. Only imperfect beings can make art because art begins in what is broken.
注释：
法国诗人保罗·瓦莱丽也这样说：“一首诗不能被完成，只能被遗弃。”（……）我们更倾向于这样的解读：
诗人创作一首诗，总是想要让它接近那个至臻至美的完满，但是这又总是只能接近，无法真正达到。所以一首诗是什么时候写完了呢？从不是它真正完美达到了最高境界的时候（因为这从未发生），而只是创作者遗弃它的时候——
“好吧，我试过了，就这样吧，这是我能做到的最多了。”
这时候就暂且算是一首诗写完了。
——Jack
👏哇，你读完了。
揭开最开始玩的梗，人工，智能：有多少人工，就有多少智能。全是我手动归类╮(╯▽╰)╭
如果你喜欢这些建议，可以把它们分享给你的好朋友，智慧翻倍。
如果你想了解作者可以看看他的博客，或者读读开头提到的《失控》(豆瓣评分8.7)，也可以翻翻《必然》(豆瓣评分8.4)。
我把它们归类为需要解读的毒鸡汤。这些语录，可能有那么点用吧，有些句子还挺幽默。
要说没用吧，好像也不太对。学点拧螺丝技巧的也还不错，有些观点我在《人性的弱点》里也读到过。作者肯定认为在他的经验里，这些思考方式对他来说很棒，才分享出来。
但你能直接把它们作为可信的人生经验吗？不行。我认为，如果为它们加上适用范围，那才是很棒的人生经验。
比如：你能像他们一样，为这些建议赋予自己的理解。为作者的经验画龙点睛，变成你的智慧。
That thing that made you weird as a kid could make you great as an adult — if you don’t lose it.
注释：
这句话是说，一个人能够成功，不是因为你跟别人一样，而是因为你从小就跟别人不一样，并且保持了下来。这就是鼓励大家走不一样的路，别人告诉你做人要怎样怎样，听听就好。
——阮一峰
If you borrow something, try to return it in better shape than you received it. Clean it, sharpen it, fill it up.
注释：
借充电宝后充满电再给人送过去会好很多，这也是我从朋友身上学到的。
——第一个喝牛奶的人对奶牛做了
什么,NGA